It is time for a refresher. If my recent experiences are any indication of the evolution of civility, then I’m forced to start near the beginning with a repeater. Please read and forward the following message…
Indispensable is a five syllable word that nicely compliments today’s posting; The Five Most Important Words in the civilized world. Actually, I’ve been blessed to travel all over the world and know these words have power everywhere; even among the non-civilized. What are they you ask? Since it’s been awhile since we attended Kindergarten, I will provide a little refresher.
- Thank-you
- Please
- I’m Sorry
- Excuse Me
- You’re Welcome
Expressing appreciation is the trademark of civility. We either throw “thank-you” around willy-nilly or neglect to say it at all. Thank you should be said at the smallest kindness and with true sincerity.
Any request not made with a “please” attached may be construed as an order. You get more with honey that with vinegar.
Saying “I’m sorry” is demonstrative proof of maturity. Be mature, please.
“Excuse me” is the most underused courtesy of all. It means you are aware that you have inconvenienced someone. Excuse me while I go on a rampage…
To the three women who cut in front of me while I was reaching for the all-natural peanut butter in the grocery store on Saturday, I would of appreciated an “excuse me”.
“You’re welcome” is an easy acknowledgement of the appreciation expressed to you.
Thank you for reading this. Please excuse me if I’ve offended you. I apologize.
myfauxpas 
I know that we all make our own choices everyday, but I do think that it helps when parents encourage you to use these words. I think it is some of the Parent’s fault if you don’t use the 5 most important words that, these days, make you memorable.
Hi Michelle!
I could not agree more! With all of the peer pressures and bad examples our kids come into contact with every day, starting these good habits at home is so important. Thank you for the call out!!
K. Martini
I sometimes feel like I am the only person in Cub, Target etc that still says please, thank you and excuse me! I always say the next time I will not use my manners when I go shopping, but it’s just theh way I was raised….